A quick note...

Just a quick note...I know we have all heard the saying live life to the fullest. So many people seem to be alive but not living. I really believe that every person should live the moment. There is another saying that says "yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why they call it the present" I don't think people should live their life is "safe mode". You should take each moment as it comes and embrace it fully. None of us are born with any guarantees. The sad thing is that we all come with an expiration date...and none of knows when that date is. It is because of this that I feel no one should live life in "safe mode"...why...just to arrive at death safely? Think of all the things that we all overlook on a daily basis. A fresh flower in bloom, the song of a bird through your window, the fact that your car keys were right where you left them, the excitement of your other half on their way home. It's the little things in life that make us the happiest. I mean when your other half presents you with the smallest trinket just for no reason. The smell of fresh baked cookies. The thought of a nice warm bath. These are the things that if you asked 100 people, 99% of them would agree make them feel the happiest, the most content. By the same token, it always seem to be the little things that drive relationships apart...I have learned to pick my battles... every time I feel as though I am being treated unfairly I have to ask myself...can I change what is going on that is making me mad or upset? Is what's going on going to matter one year from today? If the answer to either of these questions is no...then I don't worry about it...I just let it go...life is too short and I have more important things to do...like watch the sunset and snuggle with my hunni.